And don’t get me wrong, this isn’t someone looking for geeky attention or a propped up fantasy. But “intimidating” is almost uselessly vague, especially if they keeps coming up; it covers a multitude of meanings to the point that it means everything and nothing at once. She has a job she loves that pays good money, money that she likes to spend on her geeky hobbies and toys. – she hears the same thing over and over again: “You’re too intimidating…” Does this sound familiar to you? In fact, going by the number of emails I get from my readers, it’s most common issue that geek (or geek-curious) women encounter when they’re interested in dating.Their past means so much to them because it was what made them who they are today.If you’re looking for someone without wounds, they are not your type.As long as you accept them the way they are, you’re good.Most people say that they don’t like playing games, but when they see someone who is actually open, they’re frightened quickly and run away.
You may think that something’s wrong with you, being told that everyone else but you is getting married or having babies etc etc...Men love to be the “hero,” so most of the time you see them chasing after needy women.